Saw this in another post....

Can we ever love the same way after betrayal?I think we have no choice but to guard ourselves a little more.
I am more cautious, more leery. I don't make myself vulnerable to him in the same way.But I also think that, finally, we have no choice. Asking if we can we loveafter a betrayal is, in a way, like asking whether we can love for more thanjust the few weeks or months before the other does something that leaves us hurt and crying.

All love, eventually, comes in the wake of some kind of betrayal.